Good morning. I have this question and problem, I'm already in my 40s and I've always considered myself an asexual person. Sex and everything related to it might not have existed for me, and I didn't even allow it to be an option. And surprise, I met a man who attracts me incredibly in intercourse and so on, and Problem! About which I would like to ask you for advice and opinions. I'm already 42 and my partner is 57.. and he's been staying at my place for a while now and insisting on me having sex and I finally agreed, and I think I wanted to do it myself, although I was scared because I had it a long time ago, and I don't have much experience in this plan in my life..). But I guess I also felt that I was ready, and I wanted to do it, but maybe not so much for myself as for him, but I want to. I'd like to add that I've already had it, and I'm already a mother. And I've always only used condoms, I know it's not a very comfortable way and so on, and I wanted to.. so that there was a condom but it came out the way it did.. Even during these caresses, foreplay, the partner touched there, rubbed it, and entered. .. There was no condom! On the day we made love, that is 2 days ago, (after intercourse at night I had a lot of sticky discharge from my pussy, I really wanted to pee and I noticed it) until my hair stood on end!! and I have no idea why? Not a normal question.. Is a woman supposed to have anything there after sex? I've never had that in my life, and I don't remember it to this day. And I don't know what it is? And what am I supposed to do next? Am I supposed to take a pregnancy test anymore? And what kind of mucus is it??? I don't think I've ever had so much discharge from my pussy. even straight while still aroused to your partner and that intercourse! What am I supposed to do next? And how am I supposed to keep doing it so that I don't have it because it's really not comfortable!? and how am I supposed to know?!! And how do other women have it? Do they use anything? Is that what everyone has? because it's really not cool for me.... I'd love to know more about it!.. :( I've never read about it, because I don't think I've ever had it before! And now I'm asking like a teenager:( I guess I'm abnormal in my life, I'm already over 40 and I'm still looking for something and asking about these things...