Welcome. I have an intimate problem and I have no one to talk to about it, so I decided to seek advice here. I've been in a relationship for a few months. We are both in our forties. We both had it already, although I was lonely for a very long time, for a very long time. We were not in a hurry to start intercourse (and we rarely see each other). So we decided to get to know each other better and build the foundations of the relationship. And so 3 days ago we decided to have unprotected sex, which turned out to be for me the discovery of something new, that is, only now I learned about something like preejaculate, how I understood it something like ejaculation, although I do not know myself.. as if it is not and ejaculation.. and the man does not feel it..? but he is capable of fertilization... and here I guess my main question, how do I even recognize these secretions? when a man has it.. and when is it still silent? eg during the introductory game, caresses, and what happens when the man gets there? and even when putting on a condom if it touches? I just do not know what it looks like? even if it's intercourse in a condom. what should I do during such a situation? I am very sorry for such a question,,,